Sarah Moss

Sarah Moss

March 30, 1969 - February 16, 2026

Obituary

Sarah Ann Moss (Richardson), 56, joined a brigade of exceptionally fierce (and funny) angels on February 16, 2026. Her family and friends kept a devoted and emotional bedside vigil for Sarah, brimming with song, laughter, story telling, tears, the 2026 Olympics, and overflowing love. 

Born in Anchorage, Alaska, to Mary Ann (DeMark) and Mike Richardson, Sarah grew up in Hoffman Estates, Illinois, graduating as salutatorian, homecoming queen, National Honors Society President, and esteemed soccer player from Hoffman Estates High School in 1987. Sarah’s jobs were rooted in her enthusiasm for service and music. She guarded lives at the local pool and ushered patrons to their seats at Poplar Creek Music Theater, catching free concerts all summer. She graduated from Saint Norbert College with a BA in Psychology and from Penn State with a Masters in Kinesiology, later teaching classes in health and fitness at multiple colleges, as well as yoga upon earning her instructor certification. 

She met her husband, Chris, at Saint Norbert College in 1989 after transferring from the University of Iowa. They married on September 16th, 1995 in Bailey’s Harbor, Wisconsin. Sarah and Chris spent a few years living in and around Madison while she took more classes in pursuit of a Ph.D in Positive Psychology. They then planted roots in Neenah, Wisconsin, where they have been raising their most wonderful children.

Sarah moved through the world with abundance, sunshine, and generosity. The consummate cheerleader, Sarah made it her mission to brighten other people’s lives with her dazzling smile, shining clear eyes, and a festival of color. She possessed a special talent to infuse any space with joyful hues, elegant warmth and impossibly precise design; her artistic eye was unparalleled. She shined brightest when she was helping others, and she had the rare ability to make everyone feel like an old friend.

Sarah loved life with a singular passion, engaging it with her whole being. She transported teenagers to and fro, joyfully volunteered in the school cafeteria, and gardened with a purpose. She celebrated family and friends through campfire songs, creative activities, zany schemes, and thoughtful “this made me think of you” gifts. She loved to play her music loud and rockin’, but she also loved the quiet sound of crashing waves. She invited stray animals of all kinds into her yard, and more than one into the house, and she loved hosting and making breakfast for the kids’ friends at the Moss Home.

Sarah’s untimely death leaves a wake of broken-hearted friends, family, and acquaintances in her orbit. In honor of her legacy, spread a ray of sunshine through a word, a kind gesture, or a simple smile. And, wear a splash of color. Preferably orange. 

Sarah is survived by her husband, Chris; her children Grace DeShambo, Cooper, Satchel, and Mercer; son-in-law Kennan DeShambo; parents Mike and Mary Ann (DeMark) Richardson; brother David; sister-in-law Lara LeVoy; niece Ella and nephew Ray; brother-in-law Jonathan; stepmother Elaine Moss; mother-in-law Vicki Moss; stepfather-in-law Doug Austin; and countless adoring aunts, uncles, and cousins. She was preceded in death by her father-in-law, Marshall Moss.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in her name to the Neenah Animal Shelter.

A memorial service will be held at Saint Margaret Mary Church, 620 Division St, Neenah, WI 54956, on Saturday, February 28th at 11am. Visitation will begin at 9 am. In memory of Sarah’s vibrant spirit, guests are encouraged to dress in bold colors.


Events

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Visitation
Sat Feb 28, 2026 @ 9:00 AM - 11:00 AM CST
St. Margaret Mary Catholic Church • 620 Division St, Neenah, WI 54956
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Memorial Service
Sat Feb 28, 2026 @ 11:00 AM - 11:30 AM CST
St. Margaret Mary Catholic Church • 620 Division St, Neenah, WI 54956
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Morgan Hogerty
Friend •
Whenever I think of Sarah, I can hear her voice saying "Hello, sunshine!", a greeting she always used whether we were meeting in person or chatting over text or email. Those words always lifted my heart and inspired me to be the sunshine that she saw within me. Sarah had a beautiful way with written words as well. A significant moment in my son's life, who had become fast friends with Sarah's son Coop in elementary school, was always marked by a heartfelt note from Sarah, where she recalled happy memories, extolled congratulations, and, most importantly, told him how wonderful he was and how much she cherished him and his friendship with Coop. She never overlooked a moment to make a kind gesture or say a kind word. I am so grateful for the time we had together and heartbroken it has come to an end.
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Steve Pable - St. Mary Catholic Schools
Friend •
Dear Chris, Grace & Kennan, Cooper, Satchel, & Mercer - we are so deeply sorry for your loss. Words fail in moments like this, but the words of her obituary captured Sarah so beautifully. She truly did brighten the lives of so many people she met. I was always so struck how, when she spoke to you, she had the gift to make you feel like you were THE person she most wanted to talk to at that moment. Every single time. That gift of seeing, noticing people, is what our world needs more of. May she inspire others to be more like her, and may each of you take comfort in the life and light she shared.
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Benjamin Kotchen
Friend •
I will always think of Mrs. Moss’s huge, open-armed hugs and the brightest smile she gave whenever she saw me. I have been lucky enough to know those hugs- and her beautiful, quirky spirit- for as long as I can remember. So many core moments in my life, from Family Camp to countless sports growing up, to partying it up at Moss Shore and everything in between, had Mrs. Moss at the heart of them, helping and adding joy in any way she could. If my parents couldn’t make it, I never worried, because Mrs. Moss was always there. She baked brownies for movie nights, made me feel like an All-American after games, and listened when I needed someone most- especially this past New Year’s. The endless thoughtfulness and kindness she shared over the years inspire me to live with the same generosity and love for all people and creatures that she showed so naturally. Mr. and Mrs. Moss created my favorite family on the planet and gave me my best friends. I see her spirit now more than ever in her children, and I will carry the lessons she gave me for the rest of my life.

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