Ethan Grube

October 15, 1992 - September 20, 2026

Obituary

Ethan David Grube, age 33, of Whitefish Bay, Wisconsin, died unexpectedly on September 20, 2026. Ethan was born on October 15, 1992, and grew up in the Fox Valley, where he attended Appleton East High School. Eight years ago, Ethan moved to Milwaukee where he began a career dedicated to helping others. He was recognized throughout the community for supporting people as they overcame the challenges associated with addiction.

Ethan was a proud and dedicated father to his two boys Ezme and Elijah. Time with his boys and family were his most cherished moments. His boys meant the world to him.

Ethan was passionate about his work in Milwaukee. He spent seven years at Roots Recovery Housing Services and had recently begun a new role as Director of Business Development at Legacy Recovery Centers.

Ethan will be remembered for the person he was and for the lasting impact he had on the lives of those who knew and loved him. He had a way of bringing laughter and kindness to those around him and his presence will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and everyone fortunate enough to have known him.

Everyone who knew Ethan knew how much he loved sports, especially playing golf whenever he had the chance. Living in Milwaukee also gave him many opportunities to attend Brewers and Bucks games.

Ethan is survived by his children, Ezme and Elijah; his parents, David and RoxAnn Grube; his sister, Kendelle Grube (Tyler); his grandmothers, Carol Petit and Margaret Holdmann; and many other family members and friends.

A funeral service celebrating Ethan’s life will be held on Saturday, September 26, 2026, at Alliance Church:

2693 W. Grand Chute Boulevard

Appleton, Wisconsin 54913

Visitation will begin at 10:00 a.m., followed by the service at noon.

A celebration of life is planned for a later date in Milwaukee.

Although Ethan’s time with us was far too short, the love he shared and the memories he created will remain with us. His life mattered, and he will forever hold a place in the hearts of those who loved him.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Community Foundation for the Fox Valley Region’s Appleton Police K9 Program Fund.

Events

Visitation

Sat Sep 26, 2026 @ 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM CDT

Appleton Alliance Church • 2693 W Grand Chute Blvd, Appleton, WI 54913

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Funeral Service

Sat Sep 26, 2026 @ 12:00 PM CDT

Appleton Alliance Church • 2693 W Grand Chute Blvd, Appleton, WI 54913

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Marty G

Family • 1 month ago

I remember Ethan (and Kendelle) growing up. They lived 2 doors from me. Ethan was always coming over to see what he could help with. One time we painted a metal milk can. He kept asking me why I was painting over what he had already painted 😊. He also asked me if he was named after Ethan Allen. What a great kid.

Jamie Maxwell

Friend • 1 month ago

Ethan was a very inspirational person in my life, especially when I lived in Milwaukee and saw him often. I got to see him overcome his issues from day 1 and it was impressive to see someone fully give themselves to becoming great. Ethan never said a bad word about anyone. He was kind, smart, considerate and extremely generous. Within seconds of meeting a person like Ethan, you know his heart is pure. I have many memories of Ethan that I will continue to hold onto and cherish. We lost a good one, God gained a good one, and that is worth remembering along with all the amazing things Ethan brought to this world. God bless Ethan, for his love will shine forever in our memories.

Al Olmstead

Friend • 1 month ago

Ethan was a dear friend to our son Andrew. Always there for him no matter the time of day. Ethan was the support, the strength and the happiness that was needed during the most difficult times. One short story. Ethan came to our family cookout. Not knowing really anyone but Andrew. A couple hours later he was a friend to all of us. A bright light and infectious spirit. We pray for the family and for all the friends that are feeling the pain of loss. Lord offer all peace and comfort. All our love. The Olmstead Family.

Jake John

Family • 1 month ago

Ethan Grube! It's Jake John here. I know you can read these I know you are in heaven I know you are in a good place and I know you are looking down at everybody. You are so loved you will never be forgotten you will always be a boss and I will always be grateful to God that he put you in my life! I will never forget you! You will always have a spot in my heart! You made an impact on me that I will never forget. I love you so much my young brother! I will see you when it's my turn. But until then my prayers and my thoughts will be with you and your family. I know your thought was always on your family and that beautiful little boy of yours Elijah. I would be grateful to God if I could ever be a part of his life to help him out when he needs it like you were there for me ! I love you Ethan Grube.

Joe Kordasiewicz

Friend • 2 months ago

Ethan was the house manager that picked me up from Nova 8 years ago. He became one of my best friends and I’ll never meet another human like Ethan. The world is darker with Ethan gone. God bless him and his family.

Belle

Coworker • 2 months ago

I met Ethan through the industry. I was living in California trying to connect with people working in the industry in Wisconsin (my home state). I was given Ethan’s number and the first time I met him he made me feel like we’ve known each other for years. He connected me with tons of other people and wanted to help me succeed. It was obvious that he was a special human and had one of the most memorable personalities of anyone I met. I remember him talking about his kids and his face lit up every time. I pray for the family and friends that have to live a life without him. 🤍